Jumat, 08 April 2011

Today's Obsessions

Today's Obsessions


7 Ways To Lavish On The Love …

Posted: 08 Apr 2011 10:47 AM PDT

7 Ways To Lavish On The Love …

Warning: This article about ways to lavish on the love is not for the faint in heart. It gets down to the nitty gritty, and it is full of exciting fun that may not be accepted by everyone. I highly suggest you stop reading right now if you are not ready for some serious advice on ways to lavish on the love. One more thought: recommended for marred couples only. I am an advocate for marriage and think these ideas are perfect for married couples in the privacy behind closed doors.

1. Make Yourself Into A Fruit Buffet

Make Yourself Into A Fruit Buffet
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It’s a scientific fact that foods like strawberries, melons, apples and dark chocolate increase your love hormone. So, why not combine the two things? Why not surprise your husband with a double feast – you and all your love, topped with fruity goodness drizzled in chocolate! Talk about totally fun and delicious!

2. Pull Out The Blindfolds!

Pull Out The Blindfolds!
Photo Credit: Vashtia

This is something really fun. Blindfolds keep the suspense in what happens next. They are mysterious. They will definitely add some excitement to your night. And his…

3. Blacklight Fun

Blacklight Fun
Photo Credit: let.the.music.play.

A black light from Wal-mart and some highlighters are all you need for this! Use the highlighters to draw whatever and wherever you want to. Try "I love you" or "What are you waiting for?" Then turn off the lights and let the fun begin with the black light. You will totally make his night!

8 Sweet Summer Dresses for Day or Night …

Posted: 08 Apr 2011 10:44 AM PDT

8 Sweet Summer Dresses for Day or Night …

Summer is the perfect time to add a few new pieces to your wardrobe. If you want to have an easy, breezy summer style, invest in some good dresses that will transition easily from day time to night time with the help of simple accessories. Check out these 8 sweet summer dresses for day or night and choose the ones that are perfect for you.

1. Sunny Day Dress

Sunny Day Dress
Price: $15.80 at forever21.com
This pretty little number is the perfect way to usher in spring. Pair it with casual flats or flip flops for an effortless look in the day time or cinch the waist with a camel colored belt to transform it for a date night.

2. Daffodil Floral Halter Dress

Daffodil Floral Halter Dress
Price: $22.80 at forever21.com
For a feminine look, this summer dress is the way to go. The flowing skirt falls above to knee to elongate your legs and give you a sexy summer look. Dress it up with dramatic wedge heels and long beaded necklaces.

3. Strapless Woven Dress

Strapless Woven Dress
Price: $24.80 at forever21.com
Don't you love this darling strapless dress? The back is partially smocked and the waist has an elastic band to make it cling in all the right places. Wear it with heels and pearls to make it perfect for a night on the town or wear it to the beach with casual flip flops.

7 Interesting Negotiating Tricks and Strategies …

Posted: 08 Apr 2011 10:33 AM PDT

7 Interesting Negotiating Tricks and Strategies …

Negotiating better terms doesn't have to be scary or hard and if you want to complete every round of negotiations feeling like a winner, you simply must create your own set of negotiating tricks and strategies to help you. Don't worry, planning your moves and leaving little to chance isn't cheating, it's what all successful negotiators do! This post will, therefore, describe some of the widely used negotiation tricks and strategies as well as ways to recognize them and prevent being cheated into accepting terms that are nowhere near your ideal ones.

1. "Poker Face"

Take Lady Gaga's advice and get one to use every time you want to get a great deal. Buying a used car or closing a deal with your new supplier will go much smoother if you restrain yourself from getting too excited about the product in question. Yes, I know you want it but if you show it too soon, your power to change the terms of negotiation will be significantly diminished. So, keep it cool and leave the excitement for later – once the deal has been made and you've managed to negotiate the best possible price and perks, you'll have plenty of time for expressing your happiness about it. A side note – Don't use this trick during job interviews as your behavior might be interpreted like you're not interested in the job.

2. Smart compromise

Let me tell you something no business man or woman will ever tell you because they have a reputation to maintain – in business, compromising is rarely found in its pure state. All points that could be a subject of compromise are planned ahead and nothing is left to chance. So, in order to leave the room feeling like a true winner, you simply have to add this to your list of negotiation tricks! Buyers, sellers, job applicants… this goes for all of you – you must make a list of all elements and figures you're willing to see being slightly altered and set a limit or the end value you are ready to settle for while still being happy with the way the negotiations have ended.

9 Marvellous Operas …

Posted: 08 Apr 2011 10:02 AM PDT

9 Marvellous Operas …

As the soprano voice soars heavenwards you're carried along on a wave of emotion. Is it the pain of a broken heart she's singing about or the joy of love? Whatever the reason, I don't really mind because I love opera. Tragedy, comedy, love, hate, revenge, it's all there and all sung to delicious music. It just stirs my soul and here are 9 marvellous operas I heartily recommend.

1. Madame Butterfly – Puccini

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This is the story of the doomed love of Cho Cho San for the roguish Lieutenant Pinkerton. She falls in love, he doesn't. He exploits a Japanese custom to "marry her" really just to have his wicked way with her and then abandons her. Cho Cho thinks he will return from America to look after her and his. He returns three years later, however with a new bride. Cho Cho is devastated and betrayed and wants to give up her son to him. She commits suicide with a dagger.

2. Carmen – Bizet

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Good boy meets bad girl. Carmen is a beautiful cigarette factory worker and has two men fighting for affection. Good soldier José helps Carmen out when she gets into trouble and goes to jail. Helping her escape he is jailed himself. When he is released he finds Carmen being wooed by Escamillo, a strutting bullfighter. Taunted and tormented, José stabs her at the same moment Escamillo slaughters a bull in the ring.

3. La Traviata – Verdi

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If you've seen Baz Luhrman's film Moulin Rouge then you'll already know the rough story of La Traviata as the plot is totally similar and are both based on Camille by Dumas. It's the ultimate love triangle with the consumptive heroine being the object of affection of two very different men. Poor old Violetta dies before she can get exactly who and what she wants.

8 Things That Piss Off Your Waiter …

Posted: 08 Apr 2011 09:49 AM PDT

8 Things That Piss Off Your Waiter …

I spent several years in my late teens and early twenties as a waitress, so I know first-hand the difference between a table full of good customers and a table that's just going to piss a waiter off. Sometimes even the table with the best, most polite customers can be the worst, though, so I think perhaps people piss off their waiters without meaning to. To help you avoid that, here's a list of 8 things that piss off your waiter — so you can try avoid doing them!

1. Asking for nutrition information

I can barely remember my own birthday, let alone how many calories or grams of fat are in a particular drink, not to mention an entire menu. Waiters and waitresses don't know either, so don't ask them. If you want to know how badly you're breaking your diet with that Bloomin' Onion at Outback, check the website yourself before you order. Don't piss off your waiter by asking him.

2. Request hot tea

Though most waiters don't mind making a cup of hot tea when they're not busy, it makes them crazy to have to do it during rush hours. Why? Because it's one of the only drinks they can't prepare ahead of time. They have to heat the water, gather all of the stuff, and bring it out. And that, my dear, takes a lot of time. If it's the busy dinner or lunch rush, order coffee or something else instead, or you'll run the risk of making your waiter mad.

3. Make them run unrealistically

It's okay to ask your waiter for more napkins, or extra tartar sauce, or another glass of water… if you do them all at once. But don't make requests every three seconds, and make your poor waiter run like a mad man. This will REALLY piss your waiter off.

7 Tips on Being Stylish …

Posted: 08 Apr 2011 09:28 AM PDT

7 Tips on Being Stylish …

Even with the 7 tips on being stylish that I've listed below, I still have trouble pulling off a fashionable outfit at times. I'm thankful for my sister's assistance when I need it most. She's the reason I've been able to pull off some very stylish outfits in the past. Whenever she comes to visit, I have her raid my closet and put together a few new outfits for me and tell me what items in my closet need to head to the nearest donation box. Maybe you'll find some tips below that work well for you!

7. Determine what color suits you best

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A person’s skin tone often provides the basis for determining what color of clothing looks better than others. You can figure out if you should be wearing ‘warm’ or ‘cool’ colors by consulting a makeup artist. Most makeup artists are trained to help a person figure out which hues of eye shadow, blush, and foundation should be worn for the most natural look. For instance, my skin has sort of a blue undertone during the winter time, so I tend to avoid clothing that is turquoise or light green. It seems these colors makes my skin look even bluer and people think I’m coming down with the flu or some other winter time ailment.

6. Don't settle for shoes that sort of go with an outfit

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It’s difficult to find that perfect pair of shoes. I have yet to find a pair of shoes that goes with every outfit I own. There’s always one outfit that is rather stylish, but that I can’t find shoes to match. Settling for a pair of shoes that will have to do is no way to be stylish.

5. Get rid of clothing that you know is out of style

Photo Credit: inhabitots.com

I know that there are people who hang on to clothing until it comes back in style, but some outfits simply need to be retired. I don’t like hanging on to an outfit and hoping that it will become fashionable once again in the future. I’d much rather get rid of it and update my wardrobe to fit in with the latest fashion.

10 Soundtracks that Are Full of Awesome Sauce …

Posted: 08 Apr 2011 09:02 AM PDT

10 Soundtracks that Are Full of Awesome Sauce …

Simply put, I love soundtracks that are full of awesome sauce. Give me a great soundtrack, and it won’t leave my CD player for a month, at least. There are a lot of them out there, more than you might think. However, this is my top 10 list of soundtracks that are full of awesome sauce.

1. Forrest Gump

Forrest Gump
Price: $13.24 at amazon.com
I am a huge fan of older music, so there’s not a better movie soundtrack to love. "Blowin’ in the Wind," "Fortunate Son," "Sloop John B," "California Dreamin’," "Mrs. Robinson," "Turn! Turn! Turn! (To Everything There Is a Season)," and scads of others. This entire soundtrack is phenomenal, just like the movie.

2. The Royal Tenenbaums

The Royal Tenenbaums
Price: $11.98 at amazon.com
Not only is this an amazing movie, but the soundtrack is just to die for. Mark Mothersbaugh plays a huge part of the instrumentals, but then there’s Paul Simon jamming out "Me and Julio Down by the Schoolyard," there’s John Lennon, the Clash, and my favorite, moving, touching, horribly depressing song, "Needle in the Hay" by dearly departed, hugely beloved Elliott Smith, which is probably the most appropriate song playing during the most appropriate scene ever.

3. Batman Forever

Batman Forever
Price: $3.68 at amazon.com
I know this movie gets a lot of flack, but I loved it, because at the time, I thought Val Kilmer was hot. I was still in my Val-as-Doc-Holliday obsession phase, what can I say? Plus I’m sorry, Tommy Lee Jones and Jim Carrey were awesome. Know what else was awesome? The soundtrack. P J Harvey, Massive Attack, U2, and Seal’s "Kiss from a Rose," you can’t beat that – until you add in The Clash and The Flaming Lips and The Offspring before they faded away into obscurity.

7 Events That Happened in 1999 …

Posted: 08 Apr 2011 08:51 AM PDT

7 Events That Happened in 1999 …

During the year 1999, I was 14 years old and sometimes, I wish I could go back to those days. While the chances of finding a time machine are slim, we can relive those days by going back in memory and talking about them. Right now, I am going to give you 7 events that happened in 1999 …

8. Nelson Mandela

Nelson Mandela was the first black president of South Africa. On June 16, 1999, he stepped down and that is when Thabo Mbeki took over. I was fourteen during this time, but I actually remember watching this on the news channel.

7. Earthquake in Turkey

In Turkey, on August 17, 1999, a big earthquake hit. The earthquake had a magnitude of 7.4. Unfortunately, it killed 15,600 people and left 600,000 people without homes. Looking at the pictures of this big earthquake in Turkey after it happened is horrible.

6. John William King

John William King (24 years old) who is a white supremacist was convicted of murder and sentenced to death. This case involved the dragging death of a colored man. I remember this crime and couldn't believe that there is people out there that do these things simply because they do not like the color of someone's skin.

8 Most Exciting Formula 1 Circuits …

Posted: 08 Apr 2011 08:41 AM PDT

8 Most Exciting Formula 1 Circuits …

Formula 1 is a high octane sport. But what makes it immensely more exciting is the circuit it is held on. While there are many formula 1 circuits in the world, some are more exciting than the others. Here is a list of the world most exciting Formula 1 circuits.

1. Singapore Marina Bay Grand Prix

This circuit has reopened after a gap of 34 years. What makes it one of the most exciting formula 1 circuits is that fact that the races here take place at night under powerful street light, that too on the public roads of the Marina Bay area.

2. Monaco Grand Prix

The course of this race is laid out on the narrow streets of Monte Carlo and it has the beautiful harbor as its backdrop. This race attracts many celebrities, some of whom prefer to watch the race from their yachts moored at the harbor. It is also considered to be one of the toughest races, thanks to the narrow winding roads.

3. Abu Dhabi Grand Prix

This formula 1 track is laid out on Yas Island and the track weaves in and out of the marina, hotels, tourist attractions, sand dunes and beaches. With such diverse views, this is certainly one of the most exciting formula 1 circuits.

5 Ways to Welcome Spring …

Posted: 08 Apr 2011 08:38 AM PDT

5 Ways to Welcome Spring …

1. The Way of the Midi

Spring is the perfect season for trying out the midi skirt trend. If you’ve always wanted to know how, here are fabulous tips.

2. Hay Fever Begone!

Everyone will not agree that spring is a fantastic season, what with pollens flying about. If you suffer from hay fever, you will need these tips to keep you strong all spring long.

3. Greet the Rain Stylishly

Spring showers are lovely. If you’re indoors, of course. For those who really must venture outside, a reliable (and stylish!) trench coat is a must-have.

4. Bright and Fab

Leave those bags in neutral colors for the colder seasons. What you need for spring is a bag in bright colors. Out of ideas? Check out Budget Babe.

5. Create Life

Excited to get a start on your spring garden? Take that first step by making your own seedling pots. The ideas listed here are cheap and easy. In other words, WE LOVE THEM.

So ladies, are you down with these ideas? Tell us what you think.

7 Inspired iPad Gel-Skins …

Posted: 08 Apr 2011 07:59 AM PDT

7 Inspired iPad Gel-Skins …

With just under 15 million iPads sold in the first year of release, you'd be forgiven for thinking that there was some kind of iPad army out there. With so many people toting identical devices, it's natural to want to stand out from the crowd. Thankfully, personalising your iPad is an easy task. I've discovered that GelaSkins is just one online store where you can find hundreds of inspired iPad gel-skins. Below are just a few of my favourites.

1. The Great Wave by Katsushika Hokusai

The Great Wave by Katsushika Hokusai
Price: $29.95 at gelaskins.com
This iconic Japanese art work is one of my favourite pieces of all time. So it was with great delight that I found it available as an iPad skin. It not only looks terrific, but the gel-skin also acts as a protective exterior for your iPad. What's more, you can download the matching wallpaper for your iPad to complete the appearance.

2. Oiran by Audrey Kawasaki

Oiran by Audrey Kawasaki
Price: $29.95 at gelaskins.com
Audrey Kawasaki's paintings of women on wood are quite distinctive. Her artworks contain equal parts whimsy and melancholy. This inspired iPad gel-skin, featuring a portrait of a woman with an oriental-style headdress, is a prime example of her work. Fans of Kawasaki's work will no doubt be a fan of these iPad skins.

3. Starry Night by Vincent van Gogh

Starry Night by Vincent van Gogh
Price: $29.95 at gelaskins.com
Vincent van Gogh is undoubtedly one of the most revered artists of all time. His works are easily recognisable, none more so than 'Starry Night'. Here, it has been refashioned as a protective iPad gel-skin. These gel skins are easy to apply and will instantly revamp your iPad.

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